Recently, a person I have been following since their first blog post, and they came along during my phase of the empty nest boo hooing, stopped communicating with me. I read their blog and commented, and heard nothing back.
This person wasn’t visiting my blog. How did I find out? Well, for one thing, I don’t have as many blog followers as the number tells me I have. I went through the list of followers. I found many who no longer had blogs, many with over 20,000 followers and still wants more people to follow? I found the blogs that try to lure me into trying to make money off my nonsense. But this fellow blogger wasn’t on the list. The little OCD person in me checked three or four times.
I felt hurt, and read some of my recent posts to see how I could have offended this person. I let it invade my thoughts for days.
It has happened to me before. I think I’m following a blog, not seeing anything, believing they are on a blogging holiday, until I do some research. Yes, they were posting, but for some reason, I wasn’t following them.
It’s happened again, and maybe it happened to the person I had daily contact with, and wondered what I did. But I’m not going to ponder over it any more.
So……if y’all see me follow your blog again, honestly, I didn’t do anything. I can barely manage the technology beyond typing words, publishing them, and commenting on other blogs.
You never know…some things happen with no explanation. Worrying about it is useless.